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BACKGROUND PAPER
(2001-FCY-6)
Did you focus on how problem-solving techniques could be used in the future?
Did you focus on helping parent/s examine the impasse as opposed to the cause of the marriage breakdown?
Did you discuss ideas on how the parents could resolve their dispute?
Did you discuss with parent/s what resources (financial and emotional, extended family) they had available to assist in resolving their dispute?
Did you help the parents understand what triggers their "buttons"
and get them to refocus differently?
Did you focus on educating the parent/s regarding the impact of their dispute on their children?
(i.e. did you discuss conflict and implications on children's development?)
Did you discuss with parent/s what they need from the other parent to settle their dispute?
Did you brainstorm and offer alternative suggestions/solutions to parent/s?
Did you focus on the children's needs and wishes regarding the issues in dispute?
Did you use metaphors (i.e. parenting relationship as a business) and problem-solving behaviours in other parts of their lives with the parent/s to help them move beyond the conflict?
Did the social worker discuss different approaches to problem solve for the future?
Did the social worker discuss the allegations/concerns that you have made against your partner?
Did the social worker discuss ideas on how you and your partner could resolve the dispute?
Did the social worker discuss what resources were available to you? (Prompt: financial, emotional and extended family)
Did the social worker explore with you what triggers your "buttons"
and discuss how to refocus differently?
Did the social worker provide you with some information on the effects the conflict is having on your children?
Did the social worker ask you about what prevents you and your partner from settling this dispute?
Did you and the social worker discuss some possible solutions to settling this dispute?
Did the social worker focus on the children's needs and wishes regarding the dispute?
Did the social worker use examples of ways to problem solve in other parts of your life to help move beyond the conflict?
Did you discuss with the social worker your allegations regarding the other parent?
Did you discuss your personal and marital history with the social worker?
Did you discuss your current and past parenting arrangements with the social worker?
Did you discuss your child's past/current developmental history with the social worker?
Did the social worker collect professional and personal collateral sources for additional information from you?
Did the social worker ask you about the children's views and preferences?
Did the social worker explain that s/he will write a report to the court with recommendations about custody and/or access arrangements?
Did the social worker hear your concerns about the other parent without discussing other solutions to those problems?
Did the social worker observe you and the children in different environments (ie. home interviews)?
10) Did the social worker focus on what plans you had for providing for the children?
Did you address the allegations each parent made against one another?
Did you take the personal and marital history from each parent?
Did you discuss separation history (current and past parenting arrangements)?
Did you take a child development history?
Did you collect professional and personal collateral sources for additional information?
Did you ask each parent about their children's views and preferences?
Did you explain to parents that you will be providing a report to the court and make recommendations with respect to custody and/or access of their children?
Did you discuss solutions when concerns were raised by the parents?
Did you observe the children and parent in different environments (i.e. home visits)?
Did you focus on what plans each parent is providing for the future of their child?