
Abuse Is Wrong In Any Culture: Inuit
How can I get the courage and strength to deal with all this?
If you are having
trouble deciding what to do, and feel confused, you can start by building up
your own courage and strength.
There are many things
you can do to feel stronger, more hopeful and independent:
- Talk things over with
someone you really trust. You don't have to tell them everything, just what you
feel comfortable saying.
- Almost every town has
sewing groups, recreation programs, moms and tots groups, AA and Alanon groups,
churches, adult education programs, friendship centre programs and a library.
Going to these places and groups gives your mind and heart a break from all the
worry, self doubt, guilt and fear. You will go home with renewed strength and
self-respect.
- Spend some time on the
land by yourself, or with your children and trusted friends or family. Everyone
says time away from town gives them courage, hope and inner peace.
- Many women have found
that spiritual practices such as traditional ceremonies, prayer, healing
circles, and going to church gives them courage … and helps them see their
situation, and their choices, more clearly.
- If you think you have
an addiction problem yourself, you can see the local addictions counsellor and
ask about treatment programs for you.
Making a better life
for yourself, and your children, happens... ONE STEP AT A TIME!